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My Solo Travel Highlights

Walking barefoot on ancient carpets in the Sultan Ahmed Mosque (Blue Mosque) 

Istanbul in temperatures where you could fry eggs on stone

Walking into Petra

Standing on the bow of a ship drinking hot chocolate listening to pieces of the Hubbard Glacier fall into the sea

Greeting the Pretzel Seller in New York, as he began his morning prayers and I began my morning writing

Nothing like a brisk walk in Harlem to find your swagger

Becoming a wedding crasher in Paris

Discovering mojito at the world's biggest Buskers Festival in Ferrarra

Off to the races at a Palio de Siena

Bellini's taste better in Roma

A five minute lunch in Positano

An Opera in Verona

A Ballroom in Orvieto

A Riad in Marrakesh, called El Fenn

A villa in Marrakesh, called 'Favorite', at Es Saadi

Lunch in the Atlas Mountains at Kasbah Tamadot

Riding Camels in the Sahara Desert

A sunrise over the oldest Medina in the world, at Fez

A Palace in Fez called, Palais Faraj

Sleeping under the stars, in the desert, in luxury tents in Merzouga

My first Moroccan Tagine

The seagulls of Essaouira

13 Summers in Dubrovnik

Sailing Croatia

A hotel by the sea in Dubrovnik, called Grand Villa Argentina

An African Music Festival in Essaouira

Almost spending my children's inheritance at Hotel Barriere Fouquet, Paris

A Beaujolais and Sashimi at Buddha Bar, Paris

A whiskey at the Ritz, talking writing with Hemingway

Taking a chance, sailing in Sardinia, in dry dock!

Meeting my Lebanese sister in Paris because I said YES rather than NO

A wine tasting at Wine Bar O , Paris, finds my soul sister

Rescued by the Italian Police in Sardinia

Traveling to Varanasi to witness seagulls flying low on the Ganges

 TIPS FOR THE SOLO WOMAN TRAVELER

tip #1

TIP 1.

Whether you immediately lunge into the idea of heading off into the unknown by yourself, or you travel with a large or small group, or as a couple (a couple of girlfriends, a partnership, a mother and daughter), the solo travel experience is to find time where it's just YOU doing the journey. YOU seeing, feeling and navigating your experience. Let it just be YOU at a table for one. Don't YOU be afraid of getting lost and finding your way. Let it just be YOU making sense of a language you don't speak.  Eat eggs at sunrise, drink wine with a sunset, wish on a star, gaze at a moon, dance in the rain and let YOURSELF be in awe of a the small things in life.

TIP 2.

Choose travel destinations that call you. If you sit with travel magazines, travel books or you visit travel websites, trust me, your next destination will find you. Don't force a travel destination on yourself because you can get a cheap hotel deal. And, definitely don't travel to someone else's 'fav destination' expecting it will become your next 'fav destination' too. The destination that calls you has its arms full of lessons and rewards - just for you. New tribe members and memories that will live in your heart forever await you there. Allowing a destination to call you is like going home.

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tip #3

TIP 3.

Pack minimally. Travel is about what you carry away from your experience... not what you carry to it! Trust me, if your heart is open to learning and growing, your smile is contagious, and your generosity flawless, you will look pretty to everyone in the same dress, every day ... and wearing the same color lipstick, everyday.​ Oh ... and take a pair of flats and heels to cover every occasion. 

TIP 4.

Be prepared to take some risks. I live by the rule that you get out of life what you give to life and if you do the same things every day your rewards will never change. What if there is more to life than the 'same old, same old' ... and because you were not prepared to step out of your comfort zone ... you missed the life in your life completely! I'm a Shirley Valentine kinda gal. Remember Shirley's famous words: "Wall, why do we have all this life if we don't live it? Why do we have all these hopes and dreams if we don't pursue them?"

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tip #5

TIP 5.

Leave your preconceptions and judgement at home. If you travel with preconceptions and judgement you'll never find the true experience and you'll always be disappointed. Let life, whatever it is, teach and grow you.

Get excited about conversations with strangers. If you go seeking clues and lessons in the least likely people, clues and lessons will come seeking you through the least likely people.

Travel with Me ...

I love travelling solo! It allows me to find the true size of myself, for isn't that the meaning of life ...to find the true size of yourself? Of course, covid is challenging and changing our regular ways of travel but it will never kill the spirit of a nomad.  

 

Having visited more than 30 countries, I still love the sound of doing up my zipper on my suitcase as I'm about to embark on another solo adventure. And, the thump of a new stamp in my passport is music to my ears.

 

My adventures remind me that there's no language barrier in a hand shake and laughter fixes most things. And, best of all, in conversations with the least likely people, I've found my global tribe.

 

Solo Travel has challenged and stretched me, but it has mostly taught me a greater sense of observation, interconnectedness, tolerance, patience and abundant gratitude.

 

I wonder what else it has in store for me.

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